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6 A I try to avoid unpleasantness for myself
B I try to win my position 7 A I try to postpone the issue until I have had time to think it over
B I will give up some points in exchange for others 8 A I am usually firm in pursuing my goals
B I attempt to get all concerns and issues immediately into the open 9 A I feel that differences are not always worth worrying about
B I make some effort to get my way 10 A I am firm in pursuing my goals
B I try to find a compromise solution 11 A I attempt to get all concerns and issues immediately into the open
B I might try to soothe the other’s feelings and preserve our relationship 12 A I sometimes avoid taking positions which would create controversy
B I will let them have some of their positions if they will let me have some of mine 13 A I propose a middle ground
B I press to get my points made 14 A I tell the other person my ideas and ask them for theirs
B I try to show the other person the logic and benefits of my position 15 A I try to soothe the other’s feelings and preserve our relationship
B I try to do what is necessary to avoid tensions 16 A I try not to hurt the other’s feelings
B I try to convince the other person of the merits of my position 17 A I am usually firm in pursuing my goals
B I try to do what is necessary to avoid useless tensions 18 A If it makes the other happy, I might let them maintain their views
B I will let them have some of their positions if they will let me have some of mine |